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November 20, 2014

Do Other People Make You Angry?

Author: JenniferMaster1

stressLet’s face it: other people and events in your life can be downright unpleasant! Friends, co-workers, spouses, children and society in general can do or say things that absolutely drive you crazy, maybe even to tears or fury! Do you ever feel others are the cause of your suffering? Certainly, if others would just change, there would be nothing to be angry about. Believing in this myth makes you the victim. It encourages the belief that you have no control over your life or what happens to you.
Those who fall prey to this myth may say things like, “He makes me so angry” or “It’s her fault that I didn’t get the promotion. She is always looking for ways to make me look bad.”
Many people will react differently to the same situation which teaches us that we have control over our thoughts and feelings. Beliefs can affect emotional responses.
Let’s say someone cuts you off in traffic. You or someone else in the same situation may respond differently. Perhaps you’ve had a challenging day, so your blood pressure rises as you complain and curse about the idiot who almost caused an accident. Someone else might feel guilty as if it was their fault and think, “Perhaps I should have stayed in the slow lane so I’m not in people’s way.” And another person might calmly think, “I’m glad he didn’t run over me. He must have had a stressful day since he’s in such a big hurry.”
When you take responsibility for your own feelings, you realize that no one can make you feel anything. Yes, others can influence the way we feel by their choices and actions, but ultimately we choose what we think and choose how we feel towards any given situation. Our own perceptions and beliefs may affect the outcome of the situation for better or for worse, and that might be a difficult truth to accept.

“Take your life into your own hands and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame!” ~Erica Jong


Sometimes anger might not be your fault, at least not entirely. Yes, I said, “It might not entirely be your fault that you have outbursts of anger.” Let’s just say you can blame it on your ancestors. Just as we inherit physical DNA like our eye color and the shape of our nose, we inherit energetic DNA that carries with it the energy of fear, phobias, addictions, false beliefs and bad habits, yes, even anger issues, that our ancestors struggled with. When we attune to these characteristics that don’t serve our higher good, we can be bogged down with issues. Energy healing can graciously and quickly shift the negative energy and trapped emotions that keep us stuck whether our issues are inherited from our ancestors or created by our own life’s choices.

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